This is a fascinating topic.
God doesn't want us marrying Him for his "money." He wants us to get to know who He really is first.
In other words, it boils down to this:
Love needs to be free, not coerced.
Why does God wear disguises?
C.S. Lewis: "Why is God landing in this enemy-occupied
world in disguise and starting a sort of secret society to undermine the devil?
Why is He not landing in force, invading it? Is it that He is not strong enough?...
He wants to give us the chance of joining His side freely. I do not suppose
you and I would have thought much of a Frenchman who waited till the Allies
were marching into Germany and then announced he was on our side. God will
invade. But I wonder whether people who ask God to interfere openly and directly
in our world quite realize what it will be like when He does. When that happens,
it is the end of the world. When the author walks on to the stage the play
is over. God is going to invade, all right: but what is the good of saying
you are on His side then, when you see the whole natural universe melting
away like a dream and something elsesomething it never entered your
head to conceivecomes crashing in; something so beautiful to some of
us and so terrible to others that none of us will have any choice left? For
this time it will be God without disguise; something so overwhelming that
it will strike either irresistible love or irresistible horror into every
creature. It will be too late then to choose your side. There is no use saying
you choose to lie down when it has become impossible to stand up. That will
not be the time for choosing: it will be the time when we discover which side
we really have chosen, whether we realized it before or not. Now, today, this
moment, is our chance to choose the right side. God is holding back to give
us that chance. It will not last for ever. We must take it or leave it."